I was talking with a friend today about life, relationships, and dreams.
We focused the most on life and relationships.
We talked about good relationships and bad.
Life and death…and how to deal with the in between.
It all boiled down to emotions and attitude.
I realized that I am incapable of hate…I can get angry or upset…but I can’t hate.
I notices that even when someone has wronged me, sure I’m upset for a bit…but after a few hours/days I’m okay…
For some reason I justify why they did it…I look at all of their dimensions…they personality, behavior, spiritually, even there socioeconomic status. I try to view life through their perspective in how I could have possibly hurt them, or how the world could have hurt them.
Sometimes people just need someone to listen, to care, to be with them in silence…Not to long ago I learned that silence is an amazing way to get to know someone.
At times people’s anger and resentment is caused by external sources out of our control, which causes them to feel confused, upset, intrigued…a plethora of different emotions…one thing is certain. A human being will always react.
I have chosen to react in such a way that I take a break, analyze the situation, look at both perspectives, and then come back to the issue when I have a leveled head.
It doesn’t always work, but when it does it makes life a lot easier.
It’s a shame that sometimes I don’t get the opportunity to go back to the situation because the other person already decided I wasn’t worth their time.